nothing fucks me off more than people who use self harm and mental illness as a tool to get the attention of band members like FUCK you, you fucking assholes
this a million times. oli sykes is not responsible for your mental health, and it is not his or anyone else’s duty to give the special snowflake treatment to every single fan.
offloading your problems (real or not) onto band members is not healthy, for you OR for them. expecting or requesting ongoing attention, while implicitly putting them in responsibility of your own mental health is fucking disgusting.
if an instagram shoutout or a celebrity liking your photo is what it’s going to take to “save” you, then just fucking maybe your problems are not that severe.